Don’t use pet names. Don’t “babe,” “baby,” “honey,” “sweetie” anyone too soon. This is a first date. You are not in a relationship so don’t act like you are. Plus it sounds phony and weird!!! 

Don’t talk about your ex. If you talk shit on them you’re not over them. If you talk about how awesome they are you are really not over them. You probably can’t talk in any way about your ex so don’t try. The last thing your potential love interest wants to hear about is your last relationship.

Don’t talk about sex.They don’t need to know that you like being dominated and tied up before they even know who you are. And that you read ” 50 Shades of Grey” 3 times…. keep it light—at least until you have had a few more dates.