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Too much Too soon

08 Thursday Nov 2012

Posted by cosasalvajetequila in Dating Advice

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How much is too much to disclose on a first date? How much should you reveal when entering a new relationship? I am personally not a big fan of letting it all out, although the wine might disagree. I think we have to remember that too much info is a turn off. You shouldn’t misinterpret a few head nods or a properly timed response as interest. And don’t fool yourself into thinking that it is a good idea to talk about your ex-girlfriend, who you still find sleeping on your couch every once in awhile. The attractive man sitting across from you is probably more interested in seeing you clad in leather than how “absolutely adorable” your daughter looked as pumpkin last halloween. Jersey Shore is not mysterious and fantasy football is not seductive. The human mind has a tendency to fill in the blanks with positive traits. Make sure there are some blanks left to be filled in.

We all have a past. Some more colorful than others. No matter how interesting you think you are, don’t forget that getting to know someone is just that. Get to know THEM. It takes time, a long time, to really know someone. Don’t rush. It is a first date, not a storytelling contest.  My personal opinion is that a Brazilian bathing suit is better than a g-string. You need to leave a little for the imagination.

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I am your Matchmaker

03 Saturday Nov 2012

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Can a matchmaker really find you a perfect match? This is what I do. I feel like I am extension of you when I am out finding a person that you are looking for. What you would like in someone, I like. What bothers you about someone, bothers me. To me its like an acting job, I take on your character, yet,  I don’t have any insecurities about getting all the info or being rejected or asking all the questions that you want to know. Because I am not out looking for me, I am looking for you. So it’s better than you doing it.  I am you when I see that beautiful girl or great looking guy that you would like and I ask the questions that you want to ask, I sit down and watch them behave.  I learn about them differently than you would. Their guard is more down with me and I can cut through all the BS. Then I know, I get that feeling that “yes they would be a good match for you.” Let me be you and find that match that you want to find. Let me go through that initial ‘meet’ to see if there is any potential to take a chance on for you. Wouldn’t it be cool if there was two of you?

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